Part 2: Kya kare kya na kare..
As we saw in our
previous blog, after completing his 10th standard exam,
Rahul started his quest to find answer to the single question which
would define his life... “what to do after 10th ?!!”
Despite knowing
modus operandi of many, Rahul was extremely confused as he realized
most of them were taking most important decision of their life in
most unscientific way. I am sure you all will also find many
misguided souls around who take such critical decision based on
beliefs prevalent in our society. I have tried to list a few most
popular ones, though I am sure the list is much longer:
Doctor ka beta
doctor: This belief is partly result of the traditional social
set-up in our country from pre-historic times. Though society is
shading off caste based mindset, still there is a deep rooted faith
that offsprings naturally genetically inherit skills passed to them
by their parents as legacy. This makes people believe that it is safe
for students to follow the footsteps of their parents.
This belief is
further strengthen by the parents themselves. They usually lack
knowledge of available career paths and related opportunities in
fields other than their own domain. And to “safeguard” future of
their children they push them to take up a “known” path without
validating kids’ inclinations.
Do you know the fact that
Sachin Tendulkar’s dad was not a cricketer, but a well-known
marathi writer and poet!
Intelligent
students = science students: This is yet popular assumption. Many parents feel that if their child will
be recognized as a bright student only if he or she is opting for a
professional course in science stream. In fact, I have seen many
parents simply pushing their kids in science studies despite they
pass with bare minimum marks in related subjects in their entire
school time. It is unfair to equate inteligence to science as a
student may be extremely good in many other subjects and can have
bright career there too!
Nahi toh baad
mein pachhataoge: Many parents make the result of 10th
exam as well as stream selection after after 10th exam, a
“Life and death” decision. I am sure this decision is important, but
it is just the first step of a long journey ahead and it is always
possible to do a course correction.
Computer engineer
bano, warana koi career nahi hei:
This is the latest and most impactful myth told to students in last
twenty plus years. I agree that in 21st century the
opportunities in computer science have increased exponentially and
probability to get jobs with good “salaries” is much higher.
However that does not mean that other career options are absolute
zero.
The way society
needs computer engineers, is also needs other skills and domain
knowledge to run the businesses which will in turn use computers.
As one can see
decisions taken based on these beliefs may not necessarily lead to a
successful career for the student. Alternatively, even if they get
into a “fat salary job”, they may not enjoy their life when they
work in a career they detest the most.
If a student answers
to few important questions like, “What I love do learn?”
, “What I am good at?”, “what is beneficial to me in longer
run ?” , can make education and career an enjoyable journey
for students as well as parents. Do you want to know the simple
yet scientific way to find answers to these questions? Do read my
next blog.
.. TO BE CONTINUED
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